Mindset

  • Mindset,  Spirituality

    Intentional living: Shifting from daydream mode to creator mode

    I believed that life just happened to us, that we are all a product of destiny, and that things just happen to us when the timing is right. I believed I would meet my soulmate when God wished it to be. Perhaps I would become successful with a bit of luck and destiny. After getting a huge reality check, I realized that that is not how life works. It felt like things just happened to me and I just reacted to things happening in my life.  I’ve always been a dreamer, a daydreamer. I imagined fantasies of me becoming successful and meeting my soulmate. I fantasized about the big manifestations…

  • Mindset,  Spirituality

    10 Easy and Simple Ways to Find Joy in Life

    We live in such a complex world today. Everything we do is for some greater purpose or outcome. We create connections with others for networking purposes. We smile so we can hide how we really feel. We eat the same food as others so we can belong. Now none of this is wrong. Our modern world is fantastic. But sometimes it feels like something is missing. That simplicity. That ease of a simple life where we didn’t have so many worries or tensions. It’s interesting how the quality of life has improved but our quality of living has declined. We have the best foods easily available. We have clean water…

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  • Mindset

    How to boost your productivity by changing ”hard work” to “fun work”

    Do you find yourself procrastinating especially when you know you have so much work to do? Do you feel like it’s “hard work”? Is the first expression you say “Ugghh, I have so much work to do?” If you do this too, you’re not alone. I’ve felt this way about work too. Often when we say these things, we make the task we’re doing a mountain that we need to climb, making the task seem very difficult. Thus, to conserve energy, our brain convinces us that it’s better to procrastinate. Then it makes excuses for why we couldn’t do what we said. It seems counterintuitive that we’d procrastinate on such…

  • Mindset,  Spirituality

    Why am I not happy in life: The missing key to happiness

    Everyone WANTS to be happy. But only a few of us truly know HOW to be happy. Even if you’re not aware that you’re searching for happiness, you are searching for it in an indirect way. Ask yourself, what are you pursuing right now? What are you chasing right now? Are you trying to get that new job? Or make more money? Are you trying to lose body weight? Keep asking yourself why you are pursuing that goal. Why do you want to make more money? Assuming you’re already paying your bills and surviving, what more can money bring you? Maybe it is the lavish lifestyle you want. Why do…

  • Mindset,  Self-love

    Your Ultimate Guide to Using the Best Affirmations for Self-Love

    When cultivating self-love, you must change your self-talk. One of the best ways to do so is through affirmations! But have you ever wondered what affirmations are and how to use them to get the best results? Keep reading because I’ll answer both questions in addition to providing you with the best affirmations for self-love. This is the ultimate guide to the best affirmations for self-love. Read until the end to find out how to create your own affirmations! What are Affirmations? Affirmations at the core are phrases or sentences that one repeats to themselves to create self-love or other outcomes. These outcomes can include more money, self-esteem, better health…

  • Mindset

    Why facing challenges is actually a good thing

    Do you keep facing challenge after challenge in life? Does it seem like just when you hit rock bottom and it can’t get any worse, it does? You start thinking to yourself why am I facing so many challenges in life? Why does life suck? Why does God hate me? While all of these thoughts are normal, challenges can actually be helpful to you! Two weeks ago, I had a car accident which was very terrifying. Luckily no one got hurt but it was still traumatic. The cars are gone. I always thought that bad things wouldn’t happen to me. I know the probability of car accidents but I didn’t…

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  • Mindset

    How to stop feeling like a failure

    Failure. Rejection. They feel like defeat. It feels like someone robbed you of you. You no longer feel confident in yourself and your abilities. Failure. Rejection. Such powerful constructs hold the ability to destroy your life. But… They can also hold the key to a new version of yourself. An opportunity to reinvent yourself. What do you choose? In life, we always have a choice. Always. We cannot control many things but we can always choose. We cannot control whether or not employers hire us, whether we get a promotion, or how others feel about us. But one thing that we always have control over is our reactions to any…

  • Mindset

    How to set goals in life and achieve them using 4 simple steps

    Have you tried to set goals before or stick to new year’s resolutions? How did it go? Were you able to achieve them or did you forget about them throughout the year? Regardless of your past history check out this comprehensive guide on how to set goals in life and achieve them! When it comes to goal setting, there is so much information out there and it can get overwhelming to know what to do and what not to do. Often this overwhelm can be one of the reasons we don’t take the time to set proper goals. Another issue that people struggle with is not achieving their goals or…

  • Mindset,  Spirituality

    Understanding how to let go of outcomes you can’t control

    What is control? Does your mind excessively plan out the meeting in your head to make sure it goes how you planned? Are you stressed about a conversation with someone and ruminate about it in your head? Do you try to plan out everything you will do today in your head? If you are a student, do you ruminate about a test after completing it? Do you try to calculate what mark you’ll get? All of these are examples of control. The mind is interesting in the way it works. It tries to control outcomes even when it knows it can’t control them. It’ll try to constantly think or ruminate…

  • Healing,  Mindset

    How to quickly reduce anxiety in the mind and body

    Anxiety can wreak havoc on your life especially if you experience it regularly. Anxiety is not dangerous but it is extremely uncomfortable. After experiencing anxiety attacks and anxiety for a couple of years, I’ve learned a few ways to calm my body and mind. So keep reading if you want to learn how to quickly reduce anxiety both in the mind and body. What is Anxiety? Anxiety is an emotion that involves physiological, cognitive, and behavioural symptoms. Anxiety occurs because of the apprehension of a future event. The key point to keep in mind here is that anxiety is an emotion. It is not simply just worrying about something or…

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